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AFTER
THE VOW is Genesis’ anthology featuring romantic stories regarding what
happens once you are in marital bliss and the honeymoon is over.
Each story has life lessons for couples to follow to ensure a lasting
relationship.
"Time
Enough For Love" by Leslie Esdaile features a newly wed,
second-time-around couple. Edward
Michael Wingate and Alexandria Adam-Wingate haven’t been married a year and
already Alex is feeling the strains of this new union.
She took on his 3 young children (whom she loves as much as her own young
daughter), a bigger house (which has to be cleaned), a husband (who wants
attention), a demanding job (she enjoys) and a puppy.
She felt overwhelmed. She
was stretched out and about to snap.
She started finding reasons
to work late so everyone would be asleep when she got home.
Their love life was taking a beating too.
It didn’t hold the same thrill for Alex as it use to.
At her wits end, she confesses her feelings to Ed, which brings all his
insecurities to the forefront.
Alex and Ed both feared
failing at marriage again. They both had emotional scars and baggage that kept
them from opening up and being honest with each other.
In need of solace, Alex sought comfort in the church.
She got much more than she bargained for.
I love the simple
straightforward common sense advice that Ms. Esdaile gives.
She has a way of saying things that we all need to hear.
Giving us answers to doubts that have plagued many of us.
Don’t bother with paying a marriage counselor; just pick up one of
Leslie’s latest books (bear with the metaphors the message is worth it).
She’ll set you on the right path and help get the problem solved.
In "Something
So Right" by T.T. Henderson, Devon and Camille Knight have been
married for 18 years. Devon has
just been served divorce papers and goes to Camille’s office to confront her.
An argument ensues. With
neither side willing to concede, Devon finally signs the papers, “HELL NO”!
Ever since Devon’s
unfaithfulness 5 years ago, work has become Camille’s life.
She has climbed her way up the corporate ladder and is now in line for
that big promotion. She leaves for
a business trip determined to divorce Devon when she returns.
While there, she meets Alexander Toussant, CEO of Toussant
Communications. Alexander
understands her drive and commitment. He
makes her feel feminine and sexy. She
doesn’t realize that Alexander has played this game many times before.
He proposes a torrid affair and Camille turns him down.
Alexander decides that he wants and must have Camille.
Upon returning home, Devon
convinces Camille to take a trip to the Bahamas to discuss their problems.
She still plans to divorce him, but hated to lose the money already spent
on the trip. Alexander follows her
there and Devon jumps to the wrong conclusion about their relationship.
Ms. Henderson’s view on
long-lasting relationships and the problems they incur was right on the money.
It’s so easy to take each other for granted.
She paints a picture of a marriage showing trust and forgiveness, but not
without conditions. Camille must
learn to not only forgive, but also forget, which can be a very hard thing to
do.
Jacquelin Thomas’
contribution, "Skin Deep", shows a loving
couple struggling to put the pieces of their marriage back together after
surviving a life threatening condition. Reva
Anderson has moved out of her home with her husband, of 20 years, Edward and
their teenage daughter. She is
having a tough time dealing with the double mastectomy she had to undergo. She
is angry and bitter and hasn’t been intimate with Ed since the surgery three
years ago. She fears the disgust
she might see on his face when he sees her body.
Ed wants Reva to come home,
but at the same time, he doesn’t want to push her and cause her to leave him
for good. With some prodding from
Reva’s mom, Reva agrees to let Ed take her away for the summer. They spend
time together trying to revitalize their marriage.
You watch them as they spend
their summer doing all the touristy things that people do on vacation.
They go out of their way trying to make each other feel comfortable,
tiptoeing around trying not to disturb what little they have repaired.
Until in a moment of passion, Ed touches her.
It’s heart-warming to watch
this couple who are so in love, struggle to save their relationship.
It’s a long way back to reconciliation and Ms. Thomas takes you through
every trial and every triumph. At
times it was difficult to sympathize with Reva.
Like everyone else, you want her to get past this and move on with her
life. Then other times, Ms. Thomas
wraps you in Reva’s grief and makes you feel and touch her pain.
Ed was the epitome of a real
father- real man. He fought for his
marriage doing whatever it was he had to do.
For those of us who uttered these words, “in sickness and in health”,
you never know what cards life may deal you.
This story was just what the doctor ordered.
AFTER
THE VOWS is a handbook for anyone who wants a long-term relationship.
It holds no punches and tells it like it is.
This one I plan to keep next to my bed.
For easy access when the real world gets to be a little too much to
handle. Help will be but an arms
reach away, in both directions.
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